IN THE END??

It is the journey that gives us happiness, not the destination--- goes one of the dialogue of the great movie PEACEFUL WARRIOR. Is int it right that the means matter more than the ends ? that the way should be enjoyed whatever be the destination?

but still when we look back don't we think many times - why the fuck did i waste my time in doing that? what was the use of wasting so many hours in that work? it had happened with me many times - i keep planning and the never execute. i keep thinking but the events turn out to be exactly opposite of what i thought . i keep expecting and get nothing in answer! And still when we now the thing is not going to matter in " long run" we keep doing it - as an addiction ! should i stop eating junk food for a better health in long run? should i keep planning for a better life? should i keep thinking for a better way of life? trying to live for a better disease free life and then die suddenly?should i keep thinking about how world will be a better place? OR STOP- because in the end it does even matter- what you keep planning!
As says one of my Fav song in Linkin park


It starts with love

One thing
I don't know why
It doesn't even matter how hard you try
Keep that in mind
I designed this rhyme to explain in due time
(All I know)

Time is a (valuable thing)
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day
The clock (ticks life away)
(It's so unreal)

Didn't look out (below)
Watch the time go (right out the window)
Tried to hold on, but (didn't even know)
I wasted it all just to(watch you go)

I kept everything inside
And even though I tried
It all fell apart
What it meant to me
Will eventually be
A memory
Of a time

I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn't even matter.

I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn't even matter.

One thing
I don't know why
It doesn't even matter how hard you try
Keep that in mind
I designed this rhyme to remind myself how I
(Tried so hard)

In spite of the way you were mocking me
Acting like I was part of your property
Remembering all the times you fought with me
I'm surprised(It got so far)

Things (aren't the way they were before)
You wouldn't even recognize me anymore
Not that you knew me back then
But it all comes back to me(In the end)

You kept everything inside
And even though I tried
It all fell apart
(What it meant to me will eventually be a memory of a time when I)

I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn't even matter

I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn't even matter

I put my trust in you
Pushed as far as I can go
For all this
There's only one thing you should know

I put my trust in you!
Pushed as far as I can go!
For all this!
There's only one thing you should know!

I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn't even matter

I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn't even matter

PS: beta answer is balance! plan but dont make those plans ur life! be flexible - desire but don't make those desires ur aim in life! Live but don't make life as ur only possession!