LOVE

frankly speaking i should be the last person to have any authority to write about this word. but seeing its power and influence on all the people around me , even my mind could not escape it. LOVE the word which is the topic of maximum stories, subject of maximum movies, matter for max ads, base of many philosophies and most of all the topic of max discussions. it has got such a great power that timid become brave , duffers become knights and servant become kings. it has such an influence that it is considered not less then a magic , fever, or whatnot. since childhood the best stories we heard were love stories and no film no entertainment is complete without this word.and even some as Richard Bach take it from physical to spiritual word the union of souls , the concept of soul mate not to mention even Indian religious texts mentioning about a union of 7 lives.
but is it really so great or just a masala in stories where all couples live happily thereafter . but practically i have hardly seen any such example and even in all those famous stories of bachpan romeo and juliet ,heer ranjha and what all, they died even before they got married and thts why may be they never fought!!!
do soulmates really exist?? well there are different answers as always. A dream world with all perfections says definitely yes and they live with u forever and a practical world in which even Richard himself gets divorced after 20 yrs of "Happy" married life!! is it just an infatuation with sexual attraction or is it an everlasting feeling which unites two human beings?? love is as old as the world itself rather we can say world is there becoz of love . it thrived and left no one untouched be it Vishwamitra or Napolean no one was able to escape this feeling .

people "fall" in love and feel themselves in a state of bliss away from all the worries of the world a feeling of oneness and happiness and success to achieve what they wanted . they damn care about the whole world and their only aim is to be united with their soul mate. then?
then comes the next stage called marriage and soon all those goddy talks end up and so do those never ending calls , sms, cards and other gifts. now man turns to the next stage of his life a transition from love to carrier and what he ignores is this sweet word . they are soon in a different world far away from each other, though physically together . very much together but very lonely in their hearts and soon that love turns into a bitterness. that i love u changes into u cant do such a simple thing . and oh my god once u start disliking someone all his/her habits look bad only and soon the person realizes it was not the TRUE LOVE and so lets try next and then next................ is situation so bad? well in western countries it seems so as i have seen in movies and novels
and our country is moving on the same path . market sells everything and so how can it miss love the weakest and the strongest of the human feelings. the entire environment tells him dear u have to fall in love u r a teenager now look around u its time now for ur MP 3 mera pehla pehla pyar.he grows up a bit and soon his main aim is to patao girls leave aprat pyar . and thats a never ending race with such a stiff competition uffffffff. but even if he comes out of this race love is there in the air in the phone in the cards in the gifts and now most of all in the net and all companies are happy this is love!!and no one can escape its clutches because to be single is a abhi shap something abnormal, unhuman and so u have to fall in love and beta start searching before u r out of the race fully.

but what do u search? love at first sight? or any gal nearabout or anything which comes in ur way these definitely can never be love yar. then? then someone who matches ur frequency who is like u , same hobbies, intersts and what all an ideal human being with ideal physical mental and spiritual characteristics and of course there should be love then. but believe me my own two year experience tells me that there is nothing as "perfect" because it is perfect as per your definition and all humans are different in a way or other. fir???

well in meantime i saw a couple , my parents, they are so different but still they love each other . they talk they laugh they fight and they do what all two people do but when it comes to sacrifices both want to out pass each other they are so caring so loving .

then? yes love is a verb it is not just three words said in ur youth to anyone but a feeling to be followed througout your life with someone special.it is not compromise but sacrifice.it is not about teaching but learning from each other. it is not my life but our life . its not about me but about us . its not only about laughing in good times but crying together in bad times. its not only about kissing in sunshine but holding ur hands during storms . its not spoken through words but said through eyes. it doesnt require gifts but a smile. its a respect , trust ,care for someone else more then u and yes this is LOVE!!!!!!!!

hello i m still not in love:)